Is it ok to get more aroused after steamy movie?

Do you mean the steamy movies arouse you more than your husband does? That is a difficult one since you have been married for such a long time. Steamy movies and porn do arouse me but they don't take the place of my husband. Of course it is a bonus if we are watching together and we are both aroused. I guess it is all that romance and sex all wrapped up together. It is the fantasy part. Does this happen to your husband too. I say whatever works for you, if it is gonna spice up your marriage then there is no harm done. As long as you are still enjoying the sex with your husband and he arouses you even after you watch a steamy movie. If you don't enjoy sex with him at all then that is a different story. Yeah now I am confused too. :)